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Real talk — if your weekend sex life has been running on the same script for, oh, the last few years, this is your sign to mix it the hell up. None of these four tips are complicated. None of them require new gear (though I have something for you at the bottom 😉). All of them will make this weekend feel different than last weekend.
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Tip #1: Move Where You Do It.
Up against a window? On the ottoman? Bent over the couch? Changing your scenery flips a switch in your brain — suddenly you feel alive… and a little risqué. Same act, same partner, brand new experience.
Just because the bedroom is comfortable doesn't mean it's the only room in the house.
Tip #2: Include the WHOLE BODY in Your Foreplay.
I call this pleasure mapping — and it's a hot way to get to know each other's bodies again in THIS stage of life (because things change!).
Start at your partner's hair. Move down to their neck. Aaaaalll the way down to their fingertips. Don't skip the inside of the elbow, the small of the back, behind the knee, between the toes — every nook and cranny is hiding little pleasurable secrets you forgot were there.
The rule: anytime your partner's breath quickens — go DEEPER on that spot. That's where the gold is.
Tip #3: Play With Your Mouth.
Your mouth has SO many different sensations it can give — and most people use about two of them. Time to unlock the rest:
Cool air. Blow softly across their skin, over a nipple, into the wenis (yes — the inside of the elbow. It's a secondary erogenous zone and it will absolutely surprise you). Then switch to warm breath. Keep them guessing.
Tongue play. Use the tip. Use the flat. Use the side. Each part feels totally different to your partner — and trying them in different spots is a whole exploration.
Just lips. Don't forget the sensation of pulling only your lips across their skin. No tongue. No pressure. Just lips. It's electric.
Bonus game: see how long you can hold out on your partner's penis or labia before your tongue gets involved. The wait is half the magic. 😏
Tip #4: Dry Hump. Seriously.
Keep your clothes ON and grind against each other. There's a reason this got you going so hard when you were dating — and somewhere along the way, most couples skip it and go straight for gold.
Don't.
Take your time. Explore each other's bodies under the fabric and around the fabric. Build the tension until you can't stand it.
Pro tip: it can be SO hot to leave clothes on during, too. Pull aside, push up, slip down. The friction of the fabric? Different game entirely.
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Try one this weekend. Then tell me which one made you forget your own name. 😏
Happy Humping!
💜 NikLovin